My wife is too boring

Dear Pastor,

I am writing to you about my wife. We are young people and we have been married for three years.

We have one child together. She is a wonderful girl. My wife says that since our daughter has come into our lives, I do not have much time for her. Whenever I come home from work, my wife says I hug and play with our daughter but I do not behave as if my she exists.

I have examined myself and I have to admit that I spend more time with my daughter than I do with my wife. But it does not mean that I do not love my wife. I love everything about her. But I have told my wife that I would appreciate that when I come home, she is ready for me. Sometimes she is in the same clothes that I left her in when I went to work. Sometimes when I go to the bathroom, my wife does not even offer to help me shower. After I have had my shower, I have to say to her, "Look honey I am here" and most times she is tired. I have never showed interest in another woman and I do not intend to do so, but my wife is too busy doing nothing.

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Dear Writer,

Smart women should prepare themselves for their husbands, and when I say they should prepare themselves, I mean in every way.

A woman does not have to go university to know what to do when her husband comes home. She should be fresh and lovely. She would keep him home if she is ready for him. Even if dinner is not ready, the other dinner that is not prepared in the kitchen should be ready.

If a man is having a good relationship with his wife, he will always be thirsty and that is the truth. He will not have to beg her for anything. The dinner would be kept warm on the stove so that his thoughts can be occupied and ready for anything that she may throw at him. That is how I see it.

Pastor